Thursday, February 3, 2011

Life, Irony, and Charlie Chaplin...?

Quote credit: Charlie Chaplin
Photo credit: Misterjt; Flickr.com

"Life is a tragedy when seen in close-up, but a comedy in long-shot."- Charlie Chaplin

I'm sure most people have seen this quote before, but I guess in the midst of stress from piling assignments on my desk, this one really struck me. 

So from the quote, obviously you can take away that some things in life seem like a tragedy, like the world is falling on you at the time when the specific event happens.  But the fun part is that when you look at it in retrospect, everything just seems funny, or amazing just because you got through it and came out stronger in the end.

 I tend to be a silent dramatic, meaning I won't tell the world what my problems are, but inside I think that some of them are worse than starving children in Africa (but that's because at the time, everything seems a lot worse than it actually is.) But then when I turn around and look at it down the road, all I can think is "Wow, I made it through. Awesome sauce." Quite literally, that's what I think.

Overtime you start to learn that not everything is the end of the world.  People make a big deal out of little things and in the end, they don't really matter.  As human beings, we are naturally dramatic.  And you can't deny that drama is EVERYWHERE in our lives.  Sometimes you try to avoid it, and it seems like it just latches onto you with a vengeance.  Then you think, "Okay....now what?"  

I look back at the time I was a freshman in high school and remember how I tripped up the stairs while changing classes, face planted into the stair, and then proceeded to throw my books all around, smashing my face into the cement wall.  Everyone laughed, and I wished I could just disappear right then and there.  When I look back on it now, all I can do is laugh and remind myself that I'm as graceful as a 2 by 4 (aka, not very graceful at all) especially in this kind of weather when it's icy and there's nothing you can do but try not to fall!!!

I'm sure there are many more moments to come in my life like that, just as I'm sure everyone else has a memory they are thinking about right now.  If you'd like, I encourage you to share it in a comment, because I love hearing funny stories about people. It reminds us all that we are only human, after all, and that we can mess up.  We can't all be perfect! (though I don't know about Angelina Jolie...) It's just another great thing about life, you never know what's going to happen next!

Just another quick note.  If you look at the picture that is associated with this quote, it looks like someone just spray painted the quote and picture onto a random pillar somewhere (could be wrong, but that's what I see.)  Most people look at spray paint on a wall and think "Oh My Gosh! Graffiti! Bad!" To them, it's the end of the world.  But when you look back at it in the long run, it's actually kind of funny that someone would put that there for the world to see.  Something that by its physical state seems to be bad, but when you actually read it, it's wonderful (and a little funny.) I love the irony in life sometimes.

6 comments:

  1. Hahahaha, I've heard this quote before, but I kind of just brushed it off because I never thought it pertained to me I guess. With everything you said, I can now look back and laugh at all of the stupid, petty things I worried about. For example, I've "messed up" quite a few times while playing a live show with my band. I ragged myself for it for quite some time, but looking back, was I really worried about that? Really? Great perspective!

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  2. "Awesome sauce" was by far my favorite part of this post. You're wonderful for saying that you think your problems are worse than starving children in Africa because I think everyone thinks like that! I know for sure that I do that. I'm trying to remember some mortifying moments for you, but right now I can't! This was a great post and really funny, but also insightful!

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  3. I love quotes! I've heard this quote before and it is true. The event that happen seem like the end of the world when they happen and its like you can't get through but when you do and your stronger than you were before it is the most amazing feeling in the world. Mistakes are crucial only if you don't live and learn from them. Thanks for you perspective on this!

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  4. I know that feeling of thinking your problem are worse than starving children. I remember last week actually I was talking to my mom about one of my problems and she replied, "well, at keast your not starving." And I was just like I know, but I am not a starving kid, I'm in college and this seems pretty important." This coming from a future (hopefully) human rights lawyer

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  5. Wendi your blog is awesome. I'm too lazy to think of something creative to say about it, but I think you wrote this post brilliantly. I can think of countless examples in my life that apply to this quote and they all make me laugh. I too, as a freshman, shared a really embarassing experience. I was accidentally a part of this really intricate prank on my friend to kidnap her and I mistakenly thought I was actually being kidnapped. It was 'the end of the world' at the time, but looking back on it, it's a hysterical story to tell to people I just meet. I usually start it off as "When I was 14, I was legitimately kidnapped." Thanks for making me laugh today, Wendi!

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  6. Ahaha you were kidnapped?! Oh my goodness, I think that would be a great story to hear in full someday =P

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